Author: Brittany Thomas

  • More Than a Badge: The Real Work Behind Sheriff PAL’s Playbook

    Photo courtesy of Sheriff PAL

    More Than a Badge: The Real Work Behind Sheriff PAL’s Playbook

    Picture a kid walking into their first Sheriff PAL practice: quiet, unsure, maybe a little nervous about the coach standing across the gym in uniform. Fast forward a few months, and that same kid is leading warm-ups, cheering on teammates and walking a little taller off the field, too. That transformation is the whole point of Sheriff PAL, and it’s exactly why Project Play: Southeast Michigan is proud to call them a partner.

    Sports as the Vehicle, Not the Destination

    Since 2015, Sheriff PAL (Police Athletic League) has been on a mission to empower young people across Oakland County through athletics, mentoring and enrichment programming, all completely free of charge. The lineup reads like a kid’s dream sampler platter: basketball, cheer and dance, track and conditioning, soccer and futsal, baseball, tee-ball, field hockey and more, hosted at area churches, the United Wholesale Mortgage Sports Complex in Pontiac and pop-up summer locations throughout the county.

    But talk to the team behind the program, and they’ll tell you the sport itself is almost beside the point. Every practice, game and activity is built for something much more important. Something that stays long after the game ends. They’re opportunities to build confidence, resilience, teamwork and leadership, while reinforcing optimism, empathy, respect and responsibility, which speaks directly to the sport-based youth development we champion as part of our work.

    “Sports are really the vehicle we use to teach life skills,” says Melanie Brazil, youth programs and partnerships director for Sheriff PAL.

    The goal isn’t just a better free-throw or faster mile time; it’s a kid who leaves believing in themselves and excited to keep growing in the game and beyond.

    Badges, Whistles and Trust

    What makes Sheriff PAL stand out in the youth sports landscape is right there in the name. This is law enforcement showing up as coaches, mentors and trusted adults. For a lot of young people, that’s a first, and it matters. Consistent, positive interactions with deputies help build trust, break down barriers and create relationships that might not otherwise exist. Kids get to see law enforcement investing in them as people, which strengthens ties between community and the officers who serve it, all while handing young people real role models to look up to.

    Watching Confidence Take the Court

    Ask anyone involved with Sheriff PAL for a favorite moment, and you’ll hear some version of the same story. For example, a kid who showed up quiet and hesitant on day one, and weeks later is encouraging teammates, stepping into leadership and trying things they never would have attempted before. Those shifts don’t happen by accident. They happen because kids are surrounded by coaches, mentors and deputies who believe in them before they believe in themselves.

    Free Isn’t a Bonus. It’s the Whole Strategy.

    Every single Sheriff PAL program is offered at no cost to families, and that’s by design. Removing financial barriers means access, not income, decides whether a child gets to play and grow in these spaces. It’s a simple idea with a big ripple effect, meaning more kids are reached, more healthy habits are built and more long-term success stories are started.

    A Bigger Team Effort

    Sheriff PAL’s work doesn’t happen in a vacuum. This year, they partnered with Project Play: Southeast Michigan on the Title IX Girls Sports Sampling Clinic, a great example of what happens when organizations link arms to expand opportunity for young people across the region. Collaborations like this one chip away at barriers to participation, encourage lifelong physical activity and help ensure every child, regardless of zip code, gets access to the kind of positive experiences sports and mentorship offer.

    Get in the Game

    Sheriff PAL runs entirely on community support, and there’s a role for almost anyone who wants one! Volunteer as a coach or mentor, become a sponsor, partner on a community initiative or make a donation to help keep every program free for families. Because at Project Play: Southeast Michigan, we know it takes a whole region, coaches, deputies, volunteers and neighbors alike, to give every kid a real shot at play.

    Want to get involved or learn more? Visit www.sheriffpal.com or follow along with them on Instagram and Facebook @SheriffPAL for updates on programs, registration and upcoming events.

  • Meeting Kids Where They Are: Six Questions With the YMCA of Metropolitan Detroit

    Photo of Tom Bender.

    Meeting Kids Where They Are: Six Questions With the YMCA of Metropolitan Detroit

    We talked to Tom Bender, Executive Director of Community Youth Sports with the YMCA of Metropolitan Detroit, about why sports shape children’s futures, the importance of giving kids a say in their programming and how organizations are coming together to build healthy futures for southeast Michigan youth.

    What kind of programming does the YMCA of Metropolitan Detroit offer local children, youth and families?

    We have clinics and leagues for a variety of different sports – basketball, soccer and many others. We’ve also offer swim lessons, through both Detroit Swims and our Safety Around Water Initiatives, that we bring to communities all over the area we serve. There are two other great youth running programs – Girls on the Run and PACE, and we’ve got Y on the Fly, our sports-sampling program. We also have camps, both day camp and residential, youth employment programs, college and career readiness programs, and a whole lot more.

    How do youth sports benefit kids?

    Sports give kids a space where they can learn and build their confidence and skills. A fun environment to play with old friends and make new ones. They teach so many important life lessons, like how to face adversity and get back up after a fall, and to keep working at it. Dedication, sacrifice, teamwork – you learn all those skills playing sports without even realizing it, and they really pay off as you become an adult. Sports also offer a healthy way to create a sense of belonging. Everybody wants to be part of something, and when you’re on a team, there’s always an opportunity to contribute.

    I’ll never forget the grandmother who reached out to tell me how much her grandson had benefited from one of our programs. She got so emotional, talking about how he was more confident and outgoing, how he wasn’t staying in the house as much, how he was more willing to go out and play with friends, try out for a team, all these things he wasn’t doing before.

    Why are in-town sports leagues important for kids?

    Many parents feel like they have to put their kids in expensive travel leagues because they’re scared their children will get left behind. But for most kids, local, in-town leagues offer more than enough competition, without all the added cost and pressure. So parents need to have honest conversations with their children about what they want. Are they just in it to have fun? If so, great! An in-town league is just right for them.

    When I was a kid, travel leagues were mainly for kids who were serious about the sport and might want to play in college or professionally. That’s not a bad way to do it. The option is still there for kids who want that level of competition, while the rec leagues are perfect for the kids who just want to play.

    What is Y on the Fly?

    Y on the Fly is a free mobile youth sports-sampling program. Since 2019, with a partnership of four YMCA Associations, it has helped more than 110,000 young people across seven counties in southeast Michigan try out different sports, play and have fun, right in their communities.

    There isn’t a Y in every part of Metro Detroit. But every kid still deserves the opportunity to participate in sports. Y on the Fly Detroit operates four vans that are dispatched primarily to communities and partners where YMCAs are not located. The program helps kids to try a variety of different sports. It could be one they know – like soccer, basketball or football – or something they may have never played before, like lacrosse, field hockey or pickleball. The important thing is that youth have a say in what they want to play.

    Y on the Fly van.
    A Y on the Fly van, parked at the Farmington Family YMCA.

    We try to light a spark in sports, create healthy and fun engagement, and provide a local, safe space for play. Maybe a kid will get more interested in a sport, learn more about it and continue to play. Maybe they’ll just play outside more at home and not spend so much time on screens. If we can get kids to see the value in being active, that’s wonderful. In the end, it’s all about being a kid and having fun.

    How is the YMCA of Metro Detroit connected to the Community Foundation for Southeast Michigan and Project Play?

    Y on the Fly has partnered with the Community Foundation for Southeast Michigan, Project Play and the Ralph C. Wilson, Jr. Foundation since 2019. It has been an amazing partnership that has made a difference in the lives of so many young people throughout southeast Michigan. The Detroit YMCA serves Wayne, Oakland, Macomb and Northeast Livingston counties, and we partner as a regional collective, called the “Y Positive Play Initiative,” with three other southeast Michigan YMCA Associations: the Blue Water YMCA in Port Huron, the Ann Arbor YMCA and the Monroe Family YMCA. Together, we’re bringing Y on the Fly to all seven counties in southeast Michigan.

    How can people learn more about and support your work?

    Our website is the best place to start. It has many opportunities to give, and we’re always looking for volunteers for programs like Y on the Fly, Girls on the Run, and PACE. However people want to give back and get involved – that’s great!

    To learn more about Y on the Fly and the YMCA of Metropolitan Detroit, visit Y on the Fly.

  • Title IX Gave Girls the Right to Play. Our Girls Sports Sampling Clinic Makes Sure They Do.

    Title IX Gave Girls the Right to Play. Our Girls Sports Sampling Clinic Makes Sure They Do.

    Girls drop out of sports at twice the rate of boys. Project Play: Southeast Michigan’s Girls in Sports: Title IX Celebration is pushing back — with a record-breaking day of sport sampling, community and 150+ girls choosing to play.

    Sports have never been equally accessible for every child, and certainly not for every girl. Across southeast Michigan, youth face real, persistent barriers to play, including rising participation costs, limited transportation and a lack of recreational infrastructure. For girls, the challenge runs deeper. According to the Women’s Sports Foundation, without enough visible role models, meaningful encouragement or spaces that reflect their presence in sports, by age 14, girls are walking away from athletics at twice the rate of boys. The confidence, leadership and physical literacy lost upon their exit don’t just disappear—they go unrealized.

    Project Play: Southeast Michigan’s Girls Sports Sampling Clinic is the powerful answer to that.

    On June 26, the Girls in Sports: Title IX Celebration returned for its fourth year to the United Wholesale Mortgage Sports Complex in Pontiac, and this year was the biggest yet. The highest-attended clinic in the event’s history welcomed more than 150 girls, who sampled a record eight sports, including rugby, pickleball, soccer, field hockey and more. Girls ages 5–14 rotated through stations led by Project Play’s skilled partner organizations in a space built for participants to explore.

    The event coincided with the 54th anniversary of Title IX, the groundbreaking legislation that reshaped access to sports and education for girls across the country. That legacy showed up in every corner of the UWM sports complex, where the spirit of the day — anchored by free admission, engaged coaches and a multi-sport format — embodied Project Play’s dedication to uplifting girls in sports and the values central to the Children’s Bill of Rights in Sports, which champions eight fundamental rights youth have when it comes to developing as people through sports. Specifically, children’s rights to have fun, develop at their own pace, receive positive coaching and play in a safe and welcoming environment.

    Sports sampling sits at the core of the clinic’s design. The Aspen Institute suggests multisport pathways are linked to less burnout, less social isolation and greater lifelong enjoyment of sport. According to the Aspen Institute’s State of Play 2024 Report, the average number of sports played by youth ages 6–17 has dropped 13% since 2019, positioning events like Girls in Sports as purposeful, energizing pushback against that trend and a day where girls don’t have to choose — they just get to play.

    “Girls That Play Lead the Way reflects what Project Play alongside partners from across the region are working to achieve every day: creating opportunities for every child to grow, belong and thrive through quality sports and play,” says Pat Sharrow, executive director for Project Play: Southeast Michigan. “It’s a reflection of the vision behind the Children’s Bill of Rights in Sports, where every child deserves a positive, inclusive and meaningful experience through sports and play.”

    The day ended with shared reflections on new experiences and unexpected discoveries, a group photo on the turf, refreshing popsicles and gear giveaways from Project Play and its partner organizations.

    “The girls’ energy was incredible! They were smiling, encouraging one another and willing to make mistakes, trying something completely new in a low-pressure environment surrounded by their friends, and every sport we introduce them to teaches something different, whether it’s agility, spatial awareness or teamwork, helping them become more adaptable and confident no matter which sport they ultimately choose,” says Margi Whittingham, programming director with Great Lakes Regional Field Hockey. “In just one day, we were able to introduce more than 150 girls to a sport many Michigan families have never had the chance to see or try, and watching them discover a new passion, build confidence and realize they belong in sports is incredibly rewarding to me, as a parent of two girls, and to our entire organization.”

    Project Play: Southeast Michigan is an initiative of the Community Foundation for Southeast Michigan, supported by the Aspen Institute and the Ralph C. Wilson, Jr. Foundation. Learn more at projectplaysemi.org.

    Young girl and coach high-fiving.
    Young girls hunched in a line performing basketball drills.
    Group of youth smiling and posing for picture.
    Young girl swinging at a ball while playing field hockey.
    Young girl smiling at camera with sticker on her forehead.
    Young girl tackling a bag while playing rugby.